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2018 Life Goals!

I have a lot of goals that I want to accomplish in 2018. However, I had to be brutally honest with myself when creating goals that were real and attainable in just a year's time. There are so many things that I dream to get done in just a year, but with some self-reflection I was able to come up with a list that I know I can accomplish, as well as a few goals that I want to do if I am able to after finishing the others. The first thing I did was sit down with my brand new 2018 planner (I freaking LOVE my planners guys. It's an addiction. I almost wish the year was shorter so I could get more new planners.) and write down the goals I have in mind. I did this so that every time I open my planner to write down a date or a reminder, I'll see that visual of everything that I hope to do this year. Seeing it on paper makes it a lot easier to make a game plan for.

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